Legal and policy

Complaints Procedure

If something about this practice has gone wrong — the therapy, the admin, the money, or the way you were spoken to — this page tells you exactly how to say so, what we will do, and how long it will take.

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Plain English

The short version

Most complaints are resolved in one conversation. This is what the whole process looks like before you read the detail.

  • Complaining will not affect your care

    Not the tone of your sessions, not your appointment times, not whether we keep working with you. This is stated first because it is the thing people worry about most.

  • Start wherever feels possible

    In a session, on the phone, or in writing. You do not have to use the word complaint, and you do not have to be certain you are right.

  • Acknowledged within 5 working days

    A real reply from a person, confirming what we understand the concern to be and who is looking into it.

  • Answered within 20 working days

    In writing, setting out what we found, what we got wrong if we did, and what will change. If it will take longer, we tell you why and give a date.

  • Independent routes exist

    Where the practitioner belongs to a professional body, that body runs its own complaints process. The ICO handles anything about your information. Neither requires our agreement.

  • We keep a record and we learn from it

    Complaints are reviewed in supervision and used to change how the practice works. A small practice cannot see itself from the outside without them.

Raising a concern will never affect the care you receive here. If you are hesitating because you are worried it might, please read that sentence again.

The route

Four stages, and what each one takes

You can enter at any stage and stop at any stage. Nothing here requires you to exhaust one step before using the next, and the independent routes are open to you throughout.

  1. Raise it

    Say something — in a session, by telephone, or in writing. Most concerns are resolved here, in one conversation, and never become a formal complaint at all.

    Any time

  2. We acknowledge it

    You get a written acknowledgement confirming what we have understood, who is dealing with it, and what will happen next.

    Within 5 working days

  3. We look into it and reply

    We review the records, speak to anyone involved, and write to you with what we found, what we are sorry for, and what changes as a result.

    Within 20 working days

  4. Independent review

    If our answer does not satisfy you, the professional body, the ICO or the consumer routes below are open to you. You do not need our permission.

    Whenever you choose

Working days mean Monday to Friday, excluding bank holidays. If a deadline is going to be missed, we tell you before it passes rather than after.

The full complaints procedure for Family Restore Ltd. It covers the therapy itself, administration, fees, information handling, this website and the premises.

Our commitment

Something will occasionally go wrong. A session will be handled badly, an email will not be answered, an invoice will be incorrect, or something said in the room will land in a way it was never meant to. When it does, we would far rather hear about it than not.

We undertake to:

  • take every concern seriously, whatever form it arrives in;
  • acknowledge it within 5 working days and reply fully within 20;
  • look at what happened rather than at who is at fault, and say plainly where we got it wrong;
  • apologise where an apology is owed, without qualification;
  • tell you what will change as a result, and tell you honestly if nothing will;
  • treat you no differently afterwards. Raising a concern will never affect the care you receive.

This procedure covers the whole practice: the therapy itself, administration, fees, information handling, this website and the premises.

Who can use this procedure

Anyone affected by what the practice does. In practice that means:

  • current and former clients;
  • everyone who took part in couples or family work, individually or together;
  • a parent, carer or advocate acting for someone who cannot complain themselves;
  • someone who enquired but never became a client, about how the enquiry was handled;
  • a visitor to this website.

If you are complaining on someone else’s behalf, we will normally need their written consent before we can discuss their information with you. Where they are not able to give it, tell us and we will find a way through.

There is no time limit, though it is easier for everyone if we hear about a concern while it is recent.

Stage one: raise it directly

If you can, start by saying something to the person concerned. Most things are a misunderstanding, and most misunderstandings are resolved in a single conversation.

Bringing a complaint into the therapy room is allowed, and it is not rude. It is often useful clinical material in its own right — how difficult it feels to say a hard thing to someone is frequently part of what brought you to therapy in the first place.

If that is not possible, or you would rather it were in writing from the start, go straight to stage two. Nothing is lost by skipping ahead.

Stage two: putting it in writing

You can make a formal complaint in any of these ways:

  • Email: info@familyrestore.co.uk — putting “Complaint” in the subject line helps it reach the right place quickly.
  • Telephone: 07395 854051. We will write down what you tell us and send it back to you to check we have understood it.
  • By post: to the practice address on this site, marked for the attention of [name the person who handles complaints].

You do not need to use the word “complaint”, quote this procedure, or set anything out formally. A plain description of what happened is enough.

What helps us to answer well

None of this is required. It simply means we can answer properly first time instead of writing back with questions.

  • what happened, in your own words, with dates if you have them;
  • who was involved, and whether anyone else was present;
  • what effect it had on you — usually the most important part;
  • what you would like to happen: an explanation, an apology, a change, a refund, or simply for it to be known;
  • how we may safely contact you, and whether it is all right to leave a message;
  • copies of anything relevant, if you happen to have them.

What happens, and when

  • Within 5 working days we acknowledge your complaint in writing, confirm what we understand it to be, tell you who is dealing with it, and say what will happen next.
  • Within 20 working days of that acknowledgement we send a full written response: what we looked at, what we found, where we agree something went wrong, what we are sorry for, and what changes as a result.
  • If it will take longer — because someone is away, or the complaint is complex, or we need information from a third party — we will tell you before the deadline passes, explain why, and give you a date. You will not be left wondering.

Where a complaint is straightforward and can be resolved immediately, we will do that and confirm it in writing rather than run the full process for the sake of it.

Investigating a complaint means looking at the relevant records. That is done under the same confidentiality that governs everything else, and it is explained in our privacy notice.

Stage three: if our answer is not enough

Tell us, within a reasonable period of receiving our response, and say what remains unresolved. We will arrange a review by [name who conducts the review — it must not be the person the complaint is about], and reply again within 20 working days.

A review is not a rerun of the same answer. It looks at whether the complaint was properly understood, whether the investigation was adequate, and whether the outcome was reasonable.

You are under no obligation to complete this stage before going elsewhere. The independent routes below are open to you at any point, including immediately.

Complaining to a professional body

This is worth stating plainly, because websites in this field are often vague about it. Counselling and psychotherapy are not statutorily regulated in the United Kingdom. There is no equivalent of the General Medical Council, and the titles “counsellor”, “therapist” and “life coach” are not protected by law.

What most practitioners have instead is voluntary membership of a professional body, which sets an ethical framework, requires ongoing supervision and continuing professional development, and operates its own complaints and professional conduct procedure. Some of those bodies hold registers accredited by the Professional Standards Authority. That professional route is independent of the practice: you can use it whatever we say, and you do not need to complete our procedure first.

For this practice: [confirm the professional body, its complaints route and the membership number, then add them to lib/site.ts]

Until that is confirmed and published here, please assume nothing. If professional accountability matters to you when choosing a therapist — and it reasonably might — ask us directly, and ask any other practitioner you are considering. It is a fair question and you should expect a straight answer.

Complaints about your information

If your concern is about how the practice has handled your personal information — a message sent to the wrong address, a record you cannot get a copy of, information shared without your agreement — you can complain to the Information Commissioner's Office. The ICO is the UK’s independent data protection regulator, and it is free to contact.

  • Website: ico.org.uk
  • Helpline: 0303 123 1113
  • Post: Wycliffe House, Water Lane, Wilmslow, Cheshire SK9 5AF, United Kingdom

The ICO usually asks that you raise the matter with us first and give us a chance to put it right, but you are not required to. Complaining to the ICO will not affect your care here in any way.

Our privacy notice sets out your rights over your information in full.

Complaints about fees and billing

Where the disagreement is about money — an invoice you believe is wrong, a cancellation charge you consider unfair, a refund you think is due — please raise it with us directly first. Billing questions are usually resolved the same week.

As a consumer you also have rights under the Consumer Rights Act 2015, and, for arrangements made at a distance, cancellation rights under the Consumer Contracts Regulations 2013. Both are explained in our terms of service.

Free, independent consumer advice is available from:

[confirm whether the practice belongs to any alternative dispute resolution scheme; if it does not, say so here]

Concerns about someone's safety

A complaints procedure is the wrong instrument for an emergency. If you are worried that someone is in danger right now, please do not wait for a written response from us.

  • In an emergency, or where a life is at risk, call 999.
  • For urgent mental health support at any hour, call 111 and choose the mental health option.
  • To report a non-emergency concern to the police, call 101.
  • If you are worried about a child, or an adult who cannot protect themselves, contact the social care team at the relevant local authority. They will take a report from a member of the public.

More routes, including domestic abuse and under-19 services, are on our urgent help page.

Help with making a complaint

Complaining is difficult, and it is harder still if you are already unwell, exhausted or frightened of the response. Practical help is available.

  • Bring someone. A friend, relative or advocate may write on your behalf or come with you, provided you tell us in writing that you are happy for us to discuss your information with them.
  • Use whichever format suits you. Written, spoken, a voice note, or in person. We will put a spoken complaint into writing and send it back for you to check.
  • Ask for an adjustment. Larger print, plain-text email, a longer time to respond, or a different channel entirely — see our accessibility statement.
  • Take your time. There is no deadline at our end.

Anonymous and third-party complaints

You may complain anonymously. We will look into it and act on anything we can verify, but we will not be able to write back, ask for the detail that usually matters most, or tell you what changed. Where we can, we would rather you gave us a way to reply.

If someone complains about the treatment of another person, we have to be careful. We will not confirm whether anyone is or was a client, and we will not discuss their information without their agreement. Confirming that a named person attends therapy is itself a disclosure of health information. We will still act on any safeguarding concern raised.

What we do with complaints afterwards

Every complaint is recorded, with what was raised, what we found, what we did and what changed. The record is kept separately from your clinical notes, so that having complained does not become part of your clinical history.

Complaints are reviewed in clinical supervision, without identifying you where that is possible, because a small practice cannot see its own blind spots. Patterns across several complaints are taken more seriously than any single one.

Complaint records are retained for [confirm complaint record retention period], and are covered by the same confidentiality and security described in our privacy notice. If a complaint became a claim, our insurer and legal advisers would need to see the relevant material.

Changes to this procedure

This procedure is reviewed at least once a year, and whenever a complaint shows that it is not working. The version and date at the top of the page describe the current text.

If you are in the middle of a complaint when the procedure changes, the version in force when you raised it is the one we will follow, unless the new version is better for you.

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If you are writing

What helps us answer well

None of this is required — a plain description of what happened is enough. But if you can include these, we can usually answer properly first time instead of writing back with questions.

  • What happened. In your own words. Dates and times if you have them, but do not delay writing because you cannot remember exactly.
  • Who was involved. And whether anyone else was present. If your complaint concerns joint or family work, tell us who else you are content for us to speak to.
  • What effect it had. This matters more than people expect. The impact is usually the part we most need to understand.
  • What you would like to happen. An explanation, an apology, a change to how something is done, a refund, or simply for someone to know. All of these are reasonable answers.
  • How to reach you. And whether it is safe to write, call or leave a message — especially if you share a device or a household with someone else.
  • Anything you already have. Copies of emails, invoices or messages, if they are relevant. Nothing is required, and we will find the records at our end.

Independent of us

Routes that do not need our agreement

You are never dependent on this practice being reasonable. These three routes are open to you at any point, including before you have spoken to us at all.

  • The professional body

    Where a practitioner is a member, the body operates its own complaints and professional conduct process, entirely separate from ours.

    [confirm the professional body and its complaints route]

  • ICO, for information

    Anything about how your personal or health information was handled. Free, independent, and it does not require you to come to us first.

    0303 123 1113 · ico.org.uk

  • Consumer advice, for fees

    Free and independent advice about a disputed invoice, a cancellation charge or a refund, and about your rights as a consumer.

    0808 223 1133 · citizensadvice.org.uk

Therapy is not statutorily regulated in the UK

There is no legal register for counsellors or psychotherapists, and the titles are not protected. Professional accountability comes from voluntary membership of a body with its own ethical framework and complaints process. It is entirely reasonable to ask any practitioner which body they belong to, and to expect a straight answer.

If someone is at risk, do not wait for us

A complaints procedure is the wrong instrument for an emergency. Call 999 if a life is in danger, 111 and choose the mental health option for urgent support, or 101 to report a non-emergency concern to the police. See our urgent help page for more.

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Get in touch

Tell us what went wrong

Write in whatever form suits you. You do not have to call it a complaint, set it out formally, or be certain you are right. Say what happened and we will take it from there.

Telephone
07395 854051
By post
Family Restore Ltd
3 Regina Road, Chelmsford, Essex [confirm full postcode]

We aim to reply within one working day. Messages are read during consulting hours only.

If you would rather your complaint did not go to the practitioner you saw, say so at the top of your message and address it for the attention of [name the alternative recipient].

This is not a crisis service and no inbox here is monitored overnight. If you need help now, call 999 in an emergency, call 111 and choose the mental health option, or ring Samaritans on 116 123. More routes are listed on our urgent help page.